Whether it’s your very first time, or whether you’re a veteran, approaching new people at a sex club can be intimidating. We spoke to some of our Oasis Aqualounge hosts, to discuss tips on approaching people
Do:
- Choose a public place to approach someone like the bar, pool, or dance floor
- Approach someone if they are making eye contact with you, they are smiling, they gesture you to approach them
- Start with an introduction
- Try to make engaging conversation by asking them questions about their life
- Be confident, but not cocky
- If the conversation is going well, ask if they would like a drink at the bar
- Try thinking of a coy way to ask if they are interested in going farther instead of straight up asking them to have sex
- Remember to just be yourself
Don’t:
- Choose private areas to approach someone such the doorway of the locker room, sauna, or shower: people may feel cornered and uncomfortable
- Ask to “talk” somewhere more private right off the bat
- Touch anyone without their consent first
- If you make a connection, don’t follow that person around all night: they will notice.
Want to learn more? Be sure to visit us on Wednesday April 25th for The Right Approach, a workshop where you can learn even more about making the right impression. And immediately afterward, you can try out what you’ve learned at Speed Dating. Both Events are covered by the cost of admission.
Have any tips, thoughts, or Do’s and Don’ts of your own? Let us know at info@oasisaqualounge.com.http://mailto:info@oasisaqualounge.com